This is one of those things that you are going to have to work at, you're going to have to work at it even when you don't want to. You want to know the answer to all this is? Use your head. The effort you put into dancing, put the same into looking after yourself too. Because you're worth it...i will look after you too but you like to do these things yourself mainly. I will always look after you, sometimes without you realizing it..